tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-860518517939743323.post1021910217347395344..comments2023-12-09T16:26:19.413-06:00Comments on Eventually Your Life Becomes the Prayer: WorthinessTammyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00181844196543853983noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-860518517939743323.post-38791419319212767682013-11-16T10:39:28.356-06:002013-11-16T10:39:28.356-06:00Oh, you know what I was thinking about just a coup...Oh, you know what I was thinking about just a couple of hours ago? It's a bit related to what you say about feeling confident of where your life is headed and being worthy NOW.<br /><br />I was thinking that I used to be very strict in my thinking. Like "I am not able do that", "I don't like that", "This doesn't work." "I am not like that." "That's the way I am".<br />And I noticed that I am getting more flexible. That I start thinking (sometimes) "I am not able to do that now", "That am not like that now, but in a couple of years I may have changed".<br />You understand?<br />Because I have learned that nothing ever remains firm and unchanged. There is no strict reality. <br />And it gives brings some serenity. Things which seem impossible, may work out, when the time is ready.<br />My life will change and I will change as a person (for the better I hope). <br />So I don't have to know where I'm going to, and I don't have to be everything right now. <br />Now I am just what I am today.<br />And all that I'm not, I may still become (or not).<br />Takes away a bit of the pressure :)<br /><br />stephanie<br /> stephanie clarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06034801969843868850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-860518517939743323.post-63393564617559829512013-11-16T10:29:17.751-06:002013-11-16T10:29:17.751-06:00That was a good post.
I, personally, don't kn...That was a good post.<br /><br />I, personally, don't know if I'll ever be able to love myself.<br />To be honest, I don't really get what it means "to love myself".<br /><br />I heard someone on the radio saying "pretend you are living with yourself". Now if you are not happy with who you are, then it is as if you're living with someone who's constantly nagging "I'm too fat", "I don't like my job", "I'm jealous of my sister", "I don't have enough self-confidence", ... whatever. <br />Could you live with someone like that? If you can't, then how can we expect someone else to do so?<br />So instead of focussing on the things we are not happy with, focus on what we are happy with and focus on the others.<br /><br />(still, it's easily said...)stephanie clarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06034801969843868850noreply@blogger.com