#1 - To my surprise a below list price offer I made on a condo was accepted. I didn't know how to feel. I knew there was still a lot to figure out once I received the HOA documents and more info on a pending lawsuit for a former management company that was misusing funds. So I still had time to back out after I got more info.
#2 - I just happened to have planned a lunch with a friend who used to be the president of the condo association where she lived. The conversation was helpful, though still overwhelming. At the end I asked if she wanted to see the place I may live online. We looked and I started to get really sad. This was not the direction I envisioned for my life this year.
On the way home I started to cry. Because of a detour I drove right by a friend's house so I stopped by. She wasn't home. I planned to get groceries, but I was crying and wanted comfort. I thought of going home to get that, but I know that I need to start getting used to comfort from other sources so I stopped at another friend's on the way. #3 - Thru this stop I learned she has a friend who owned a condo, most likely in this same development, and has really had a mess with it. #4 - So it is because of my sadness that I went to a friend's and found out info that changed my decision and saved me the time and energy of sifting thru documents.
#5 - I still got the hug and comfort when I got home, and then Michael and I took a walk together.
Why do you need to start getting comfort from other sources? Is everything ok between you?
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